I’m aware that I in many situations seem like this really uptight know-it-all bitch that just waits for someone to say the wrong (or right, depending on how you see it) things so I can throw myself over them and point out what dumbfucks I think they are.
Well, you’re partially right. The levels of human stupidity never seizes to annoy the hell out of me, and for some reason whenever I see it I just can’t keep my mouth shut. Partially my fault, I admit it.
I’ve come to a point where I am so sick and tired of seeing posts at forums about how someone likes/loves somebody else, and they have a boyfriend already or not or they don’t know if they should break up with him or her or not and whatnot.
Why are you asking complete strangers about your situation? There is no guarantee they’ll give the right advice! They only know your side of it and for all we know you might have serious realism-issues!
Mostly, I’m just fed up with it as it seems to be flooding the forums I go to and it’s always the same kids that keeps asking over and over again. You know the person is rather young when she starts the post with; “There’s this boy I like…”
No decent 20 year old is ever going to start a post like that referring to her beloved as ‘a boy’.
What happened to the women looking for love and needing advice on it? They keep it at their blogs or REAL friends, dammit!
Why does it bother me so much? I’m not sure. It has nothing to do with my own relationship with ShadowXP. We’re doing just fine. I have an okey relationship with my mother and I can actually have a conversation with my sister without spewing out hidden insults towards each other. (Amazing, I know.)
Mostly, I think it bothers me because these are people who aren’t interested in hearing our opinion. They want attention. They want to hear how right they are. They want to hear how well they handle situations, and how “mature” they seemingly solve things. The second you tell them otherwise, they’ll either tell you to fuck off and keep you opinions to yourself or how you don’t understand the whole picture. They’ll defend whoever you dared not speaking in favour of in the process and let you know what a narrow-minded cow they think you are for not getting it.
What is there to get?
